Love has four jagged teeth

There were a few things I used to really care about when I would meet a girl. Things about their personality or their history that I just wouldn't accept. Things that would cause me to be insecure and jealous. Things I'd try to change. Somethings happened in the last few years thats allowed me to not care anymore. There's nothing I can do to convince someone to change themselves, other than just be myself.

I cannot not judge, because I should not be judged today. I cannot ask someone to change because only I can change myself.

"One is free to release a thought ("let it go") when one realizes that the thought may not be concrete reality or absolute truth. Thus, one is free to observe life without getting caught in the commentary. Many "voices" or messages may speak to one within the "vocal" mind. It is important to be aware that the messages one hears during "thinking" may not be accurate or helpful, but rather may be translations of, or departures from truth.

As one more closely observes inner reality, one finds that happiness is not exclusively a quality brought about by a change in outer circumstances, but rather by realizing happiness often starts with loosening and releasing attachment to thoughts, pre-dispositions, and "scripts"; thereby releasing "automatic" reactions toward pleasant and unpleasant situations or feelings."